Having bad habits doesn’t make you a bad person. Until a habit consumes you and turns into a life altering addiction, it doesn’t define you. Your little brother never puts the toilet seat down, does it make him stupid? No, it’s a bad habit. The guy down the road does drugs, does it make him a bad person? No, that’s his habit. Same thing, it’s just a matter of perspective.
so i was told that “good girls are so hard to find.” you know the ones that don’t waste time in life, have good heads on their shoulders, don’t do anything bad but yet they are still soo much fun to be around. you know the girl you wouldn’t really find around these days. the girls you should “keep” because they are rare as can be. i had a talk with one of my bestfriends today and a question came to my mind.. why do people take for granted the “good girls” they have? theres only a handful out there, so why hurt one when you’ve got one. people often take for granted the biggest blessings they have in their lives for numerous reasons..maybe they rather be with the “other girls” maybe they just don’t know how to love a “good girl.”
heres the situation, the good girl will always love you, care for you, she’s almost perfect, just a few minor flaws that you’ve learned to accept making her the absolute best..but you still treat her wrong and when after a while of her trying her hardest to make you realize how good you have it because she’s in your life she realizes she’s tired and done what she can. now she’s unhappy. but she’s always going to care, love you because that just shows even more how much of a “perfect” girl she is. cause throughout it all she STILL loves YOU, even when she realizes she DESERVES better. and then once you realize, it’s too late. cause she’s gone… so if you don’t love her, some body else will.
this goes out to you love<3 you know who you are
There are some people out there that when you first meet them, you just click instantly. Not that normal type of bond this connection goes alot deeper. Deep to the point that your worried that you wont be able to go back up because of the quick long term impact that they have already made in your life.
How someone can spontaneously come into the story and fit right in as though they have been in it since the begining